MY SIGNATURE
Lecturing is an art that several people possess either naturally or through practice. But lecturing a class of young adults, specially if the topic in question tends to get ‘dry’, is something that a mentor has to consider revising. And, no matter what the area of topic may be chosen, one thing that is a worry now-a-days is - how to make to make a lasting impression on an individual!!!
Every single school day, a child drops out of school in different countries around the world. Talking to people, gave me to understand, how narrow these lines are that we tend to think along.
That’s when I realized that the significance of my career as an instructor, and the impressive impact it could make on an individual. This exposure inspired me to consider lecturing professionally. I learnt through informal discussions as well, that people generally have comparable struggles like me.
Just when I thought I looked at this issue from every angle, I’ve shared through discussions with amazing people, that every individual has viewed it entirely differently, and with different conclusions, thus leading to a stimulation of exchanging ideas, and the shattering knowledge that I wasn’t always right in my comprehensions.
Raised in a family of educators, where the opportunity of discussion and digestion of other peoples’ views is constantly a source of astuteness, this perception enhanced my understanding in improving not only my proficiency, but that of others too – since instructing apprentices comes naturally to me.
This interaction gives me to realize the high degree of expertise and experience in areas that are now of prime importance in relation to services, which must be provided in a timely and cost effective manner.
I currently instruct a comprehensive program on Personality Enhancement to augment an individual’s perception of themselves. I enjoy what I do for a living and do the best I can to help others find possibilities to do what they benefit from.
With regard to the aforesaid, and with cultural globalization, this kind of guidance anywhere in the world, will, over the next decade, get even more competitive, and I’m confident that I will make a significant contribution to my clientele, being in a position to render advise and opinions, comprehending the importance and perception of an individual’s personal maturity.
PARADOXIC TRANQUILITY
My Journey
Hi everyone! Welcome and thank you very much for visiting my web page. I’ve created this program to facilitate people deal with their emotions, understanding, acceptance of adamant and exceedingly difficult situations, and a lot more that you go through regularly, without even realizing it. I share content and make you aware of another individual’s understanding and acceptance of differences. I believe if you can just ‘hear’ the other person out, for a while, this makes all the difference….not just to them, but also to you.
Like every other living soul, I’ve been through tough times and accepted them with a clear and defined understanding that everything happens for a reason beyond our control. Acceptance of this fact is all that matters to living harmoniously.
For more than a couple of decades, I've explored my enthusiasm for teaching, guiding, and consulting with endurance, aspiring to generate work that inspires, creates community, and raises cultural, social and environmental awareness. I’ve presented my work in the form of lectures to colleges and institutes to a diverse array of age groups which also includes, working with overseas nationals. My profession as a business consultant as well as lecturing separately, overlap to form an intricate and creative work flow.
Do you want to experience feeling calm and ‘present in the moment’ every day and beat that deadly paranoia? Welcome to my webpage – ask questions, share your experiences and above all else please be respectful and open to what is presented. So let me guess!! You’re not sure where to begin, even if you’re life depended on it!!
Stop! – Very quietly and calmly right there!! Here’s where you’ve got to make that conscious decision…Are you serious about living ‘in that present moment’ while ‘preparing thoroughly’ for that ‘significant’ occasion? From personal and professional experiences, I’ve leveraged my ability to build connections to create a genuine enhancement to your performance. I guide you with options to suit your current concern/s and situation. In addition to guidance offered here, this is a place to discuss solutions or get ideas to help you out of your ‘sticky situation’, through conversations with other people with similar interests. If something is disturbing your serenity and you require guidance, please feel free to message me with your concern/s at my email address mentioned below. You may be somebody’s inspiration and solution to his / her problem.
I’m pretty rebellious about ‘Rules’, but nevertheless, as mature adults with reasonable understanding of diverse cultures, I honestly ask you to be respectful of others opinions and beliefs, be unbiased of another person’s views, and be kind – it will not cost you anything, I promise! If you disagree with peoples’ comments, kindly refrain from verbally whacking them around. Remember, what works for you may not necessarily work for others. And besides, you are NOT the ‘be all’ and ‘end all’ of Creation! Be humble!!
Kindly message me at ethel.carvalho@aol.co.uk for comprehensive details about this program.
RECOGNIZE AUTHENTICITY
Your Gift Within
Several people, at many points in their lives, need assistance to reflect. Some of us get too easily stuck in our lifestyles, not being able to see the potential creative solutions to the issues we face. We often experience seclusion and trapped with problems. Or, in our organisational life, we feel rudderless. At times where success is defined by money, and happiness is just a weight-loss plan away, many of us have lost sight of our priceless asset: our true selves. By living authentically, we can reach our potential and experience true contentment. Living with purpose, brings comfort and optimism.
Distinguishing Genuineness
Your authentic voice is that silent, unrelenting messenger who speaks to your intuition, telling you what is accurate and what you truly require.
I assist you with confidential space to explore your innermost questions in your success. I help you shift your focus from your past to the future, rather than being constrained by what you believe you can and can’t do.
I help you expose your limiting beliefs and liberate you to create an optimistic attitude, consider and take new actions and generate long lasting change in all areas of your life. You connect with your passions and create a roadmap towards living them.
You realize you’re not living authentically when you experience feeling trapped, anxiousness, confusion, depression, helplessness, anger or similar negativity. If you are not being your true self, you are living to please or impress others, second-guessing your decisions, or hiding your feelings. The good news is that these pessimistic assessments are midnight red flares, alerting you that your soul desires salvaging.
Live Your Reality
Being authentic signifies being YOU daily, and some days, that isn’t easy. Going to cocktail gatherings, professional conferences, and crucial conventions, can make almost anyone’s authenticity feel tremulous. Being ourselves when we are with others, especially strangers, is challenging. The stress of those situations can cause us to regress into old patterns of feeling anxious and trying to fit in.
While it may seem easier to reside in your comfort zone, finding the courage to be who you really are in all areas of your life and diverse situations presented to you, will help you realize your true potential and, consequently, find fulfillment and tranquility that society often tells us, comes from money or fame. To appreciate your true self, you have to observe thoughts that have elapsed, fears that are holding you back, or beliefs that are not your own.
A good sign you experience authenticity is when you feel expanded and relaxed. Feeling hemmed in or contracted is a sign that you are shutting down and not being as present as you could and should be.
Your Personal Gift
While there are twists and turns along the way, living authentically means you’re able to live your personal truth. When you live who you really are, you find not only freedom and well-being but also the delight of sharing your aptitude with the humanity. Your childhood passions, leisure pursuits, and interests develop into an opportunity to your soul, your authentic self.
Finding authenticity in the truth concerning who you are and its significance to you, takes honesty, awareness, and considerable time. But the path to genuine contentment is not paved with fame and material prosperity. It exists daily, in major decision and little preferences you make, in pursuit of your authentic self.
For your authentic life to materialize one diminutive step at a time, explore these effortless alterations that can help you live with more awareness:
Meditate. Practice clearing your mind regularly.
Specify the fear. Write down exactly what you are afraid of.
Identify the voice. Is it yours or your parents or the TV’s?
Eliminate procrastination. Achieving one small goal will help erase self-doubt.
Appreciate your uniqueness. Discover your extraordinary flair or expertise.
Surrender. Know when to release.
Slow down. Enjoy each moment and savor diminutive delights.
Stand up. Articulate your passion through accomplishment.
Simplify. Learn to say NO and clear clutter from your life.
Embrace nature. The natural world relaxes us and puts things into perspective.
Education is not authentic
Even today education falls short of giving our children what they would require in order to find their own truth, principles, and authenticity. Society still structures current generations according their blueprint. Conformity nevertheless leaves people apprehensive and dejected deep within. The vast majority of people on earth often suffer a comatose despondency which makes them susceptible to become convenient clientele of an industry that sells us alternatives.
A Lifestyle of Surrogacy
Most of us have become dependent on alternatives like entertainment, detrimental food delights, luxury articles, intoxicating substances, and so on and so forth. Other escape routes from the inner pain of living a second-hand existence are workaholics, prejudice, narcotics and the whole array of contemporary society disorders: panic attacks, apprehensions, suffer exhaustion, and depression, just to name a few. Those who live authentic lives are instantly aware of profound disappointments and frustrations around them. And the more we try to fix the essential the more we seem to fail.
What is sparse?
From my perspective, taking all possible factors into consideration, it all boils down to this one thing, in conclusion: what’s missing is individuals living authentic lives.
Those fortunate to have stumbled into an authentic life are happy human beings. Happiness is, when nothing is lacking. An authentic life doesn’t need anything explicit. Its contentment lies in its authenticity. The alpha and omega are one, as there’s no commencement or conclusion.
The Focal Phase
The most important step to live authentically is to unclog all that doesn’t conform to authenticity. You have to be enthusiastic and audacious to accept the misrepresentations and concessions you live. And then well, stop it. No other way. Walk away subtly from what’s not true in your life. With a variety of misrepresentation weakening, your energy changes. And the new vigour IS the vigour of authenticity.
What is your natural state?
An authentic life allows you to live the mysterious Here and Now. Authenticity success springs naturally and effortlessly. Authenticity is complete and vigorous in itself. Love is the natural state a person experiences when they live authentically. Love for themselves, love for others, love for the world and love for life.
Living authentically, creates a feeling of content, calm, and optimism. You’re sincere and open and listen to your feelings. You can think for yourself, you are open to change; you can take responsibility, ask for help, and choose healthy preferences. More significantly, you desire to do your best.
Clients recurrently return with the following accomplishments:
Clarity – Confusion is replaced with harmony, rationale and a sense of significance
Direction – Perceiving your goal allows you to plan expressively
Additional free time – Less time spent worrying means more time to play
Enhanced work/life stability – you gain control over demands of your working life and desire how to expend your time
Improved associations – communication with dear ones improves
More energy – you feel energised and spring out of bed every morning
People long for an authentic life, not driven by circumstances, scarcity, or compromised by society. Are you one of them?? Then consider attending my program and clean up all that is inauthentic in your life. Kindly message me at ethel.carvalho@aol.co.uk for comprehensive details about this program.
WORK WITH ME
MY APPROACH
Living a healthy personality is accomplished through a calm and collected understanding of how to be pleasant. I encourage you follow my understanding of a practical approach to this program to the last letter. Assisting my clients generate focused lives is fundamental to my accomplishment. My exclusive understanding in shaping an individual’s personality has helped me create optimal solutions to deprived sustenance, diminutive resistance, hectic lifestyles, and unforeseen challenges.
I can assure you confidently, there isn’t ‘a meticulous plan’ that works for all. Hence, I support you through your qualms and paranoia of disappointment, and help you get to the level of your potential through courage and confidence. The journey in your personal development is most rewarding to us by concentrating on your future, while dealing with your current circumstances.
My overall approach is one of lecturing clients individually or in groups, on how to master skills and self efficiency through pragmatic learning. I work with you upon your commitment to this program. I will be liberal and empathize with you with respect to your comprehension from homework, accountability to the course, and a ‘no snivelling’ strategy that will exhilarate you.
Every client’s challenge is unique. In understanding these differences, resolutions that barely make it through to you, and comparisons that run through your head from what works for your colleagues, what you have to be absolutely sure of is your altitude of necessity to accept alterations to who you are.
MONETARY VALUE
Are you ready to contribute toward your refinement?
I offer you a cost-effective solution for your assessments wherein your investment toward your transformation in these programs will be discussed in detail with you in person upon a broad-spectrum comprehension of your requirements. All programs I offer are price – tagged separately and are to be paid in full at the beginning of each program.
My Absolute Non-Negotiables!
This program is fundamentally for those with a reflective and unwavering desire to comprehend a profound significance and acceptance of their lives in their presented circumstances. Are you interested in changing your perception for good? Read the criteria read below:
You are ready for this program, if:
- You realize the programme is making you super
excited
- Your desire to understand ‘you’ is so strong you
can actually savour it
- You dream of living a life of calm abundance and
wealth
- You're motivated, strong-minded, and passionate
- You take action to achieve your goals
- You understand the importance of investing in
yourself and your biz
- You put in complete dedicated and honest effort,
with yourself
- You're committed to showing up putting in work
- You know the value of individual instruction and
unlimited support from your instructor
- With guidance and dedication you know you can be in
total control of your circumstances in life
This program probably will not sit well with you in your current circumstances, if:
- You don't have the time to improve your life
- Investing in yourself is not something you believe
in
- You don't want to take control of your success
- You're scared to change
- You concoct justifications and criticize
practically everything that is your presence
- Having a successful business life or otherwise is
not your priority
- 'Quitting' is your middle name
- You'd rather do what you customarily do because
it's easy
- You continually reside in your ‘comfort zone’
- You put boundaries on yourself
Your journey and transition are unique. Look at what is and isn’t working for you right now. Has this been the trend for a while? All that is important is how badly you desire your transformation.
Let’s talk. The first step to your success is simple. Your inquiries lead to a confidential discussion — a conversation that allows us to decide if we are well suited to embark on the transformational instructor - patron journey. Clients can pick from programs below. Here's what you need to do:
1. Schedule your Breakthrough Session at a time that suits you during working hours.
2. Be prepared to be completely honest about your current circumstances in life!
3. Don't worry if you're not too sure what you need or even
what to say. Here's an idea of what we might discuss:
- Your personal growth, visions, and goals
- Your current situation: pre-start or already in business
- Clarity on what you want to accomplish
- Conquering your inner critic
- Guaranteeing the focus you need to live life’s process
CURRENT PROGRAMS
All Programs
My programs are designed to ease you into a comprehensive understanding of your issues in the simplest possible way and to create peace, freedom from self torment, and reasoning in life. Join me at a workshop or for private one to one coaching.
Determining how to manage fear with difficult people will enable you to experience greater happiness, success and freedom in your daily interactions, employment, and private life. This program focuses on how fear holds your back from going after your beliefs and experiencing joy and successes you deserve. Throughout the program you develop your perception of how to build your confidence and live fearlessly. Read more about the program below...
Whether it's a face-to-face conversation or an email exchange, a meaningful message entails establishing a connection that leaves a powerful impression. You become a healthy executive by learning skills they don't teach you in school and while you’re evaluating this, you might be asking yourself:
“How can I differentiate my business from the competition pitching for the same account?”
“How do I communicate my intricate observations to the audience?”
“How do I ensure that everyone speaking at the conference has the equivalent core message?”
Most executives struggle with developing power-point presentations, and worse, most have to do it under time pressure to communicate verbally the same. Many times executives end in various company losses of sales contracts, high-stakes decisions, and attention despite having the best offerings. What is going on exactly? The reason is straightforward: your communicative production ‘missed the mark’ and failed to persuade your targeted audiences.
My workshops in corporate communication skills will help you enhance your staff develop a truly engaging and responsive communication style, leading to positive results for you and the organization.
This process of your personal enhancement involves self -directed and methodical written analysis that is gentle and sensitive to each individual’s needs. My approach is based on simplicity which emphasises discovery of optimism in each person. It is simply effective for every individual, regardless of race, ethnicity, and belief, educational or economic background.
Through workshops and counselling I facilitate you to:
* Live with greater self-confidence
* Discover inner harmony
* Formulate healthy decisions
* Relate better with people
* Bring your personal contribution to the culture you live in.
CONTACT ME
I invite you to an exceptionally encouraging journey that guides you through areas that you have not even heard of. You recognize the use of your strengths and abilities you carry within you, and your potential for improvement, as you stand up for yourself and confidently believe in you (without displaying arrogance) communicating decisions actively and swiftly instead of waiting for fear to set in and how to deal with your situation - professionally and/or exclusively.
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